Posts Tagged With: Relationships
Don’t live in a casket
To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries, avoiding all entanglements; [...]
Not a wall post away
Life these days can be summed up in Facebook statuses. “I feel bored, what to do?” “I just got my license!” “I want to climb soon.” “I’m craving for donuts.” From the truly superficial, mundane, random statuses we post, to the re-evaluating, life-in-a-dilemma kind. “Giving you up is the hardest thing. What next?” “LOOKING FOR [...]
Fall by the wayside
I chanced upon the Facebook page of a guy I used to date back in college. From the looks of it, he’s happily married, has kids, a family guy. Seeing him brought back memories of the time we used to date. I remember the first time I met him. He had asked for my number [...]
When feelings betray
In the Four spiritual laws track of Campus Crusade, there’s a part there where it discusses the role that feelings play, at least, in being saved. How important gauges are our feelings? When we accept Jesus Christ and are saved, there may or may not be an emotional experience. Some would feel an instant peace [...]
Strike one: Why some men are rejected
Funny the things and ideas you let out along the trail. In a conversation I had with my climbing buddy Bin, we talked about men and why apparently, I have not entertained any of the so-called Facebook suitors I have. First of all, Facebook, seriously? Can anyone be more impersonal than that? Facebook aside, I [...]
Just like your pair of slippers
“Just like your pair of slippers, there’s ONE person that fits you,” my officemate’s sister-in-law said during the surprise birthday party she planned for her husband. My officemate Ate Malu tagged me and two others along since we were also on some surprise roles. I did a video for this party in just under two [...]
Victories and losses
Today is a day of celebration. Celebrating victories, and celebrating losses. Today was a victorious day for me and the Lord. I have finally finished all my requirements for my scholarship application and from here, I just wait on the Lord’s favour. I started writing about past midnight and finished at around 5:30 in the [...]
Small talk
Because sometimes, the deepest aches of our heart are borne out of normal conversations such as these: Guy friend: I hope you meet the guy who will win your heart…. KZ: They’re not even fighting for it, that’s what’s missing. They do all these sweet gestures short of total commitment. I think it’s also because [...]
Cleaning the ‘people’ mess
You know how sometimes it takes us forever to clean our room? What I realized is that sometimes it can also be reflective of our outlook in life. It takes us forever to clean up the mess in our life until it has progressed to being a bigger mess. Well, since Christmas is over and [...]
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